What kind of a woman are You?
February 14th 2008 12:42
So why is it that people are still acting like we are in the 50s when it comes to sex, love and relationships?
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The infamous resurgence of the victorian values amongst the middle classes, i.e. marriage for the convenience of raising children together, investing into property or materialistic ventures is becoming embarrassing to our generations.
I mean who do you know is really trying to find an alternative lifestyle, a different way of uniting sensuality, communication and pleasure? Closer to what their inner voice is telling them, more genuine and natural than what society finds respectable?
Why is everyone following the same boring mould?
How hypocritical of us all.
So are you a free woman, one that wants to choose her life and welcome into it whoever she might feel? Even if it means feeling the pains and tribulations that living implies.
Do you long for security and warmth, hoping that today will last forever?
Or have you forgotten what your childhood dreams were all about because the reality of your life seems to have left that bitterness on your edges?
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Comment by Dianna G
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My life is the alternative, really. I'm going COMPLETELY against the status quo like you wouldn't believe. I'm so against it it's not even funny.
And I like it that way. Screw the rules. -.-
Comment by katyzzz
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I've never met anyone yet who declares she needs nothing of the old ways who has convinced me, in any way, that she is right.
Sacrifice for everything of value has to be made.
Seeking otherwise is escaping reality. This follows as the night the day.
Would that there was another way. It's Men that are the problem but most are not attracted to modern day feminists. (other than for a convenient screw)
Comment by Sandra
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I hope you'll still have the same spirit in 20 years time!!!
Take care of yourself.
xxx
Thanks Katyzzz
I always enjoy a little debate!
There might not be any written rules, but they're there allright. Like let's say the one that judges a single mother that sleeps around for instance...no rules, but she'll still be "foolish" in the eyes of lots of layers in society...Why? Who says that behavior is of lesser morale than the mother of three that hasn't had an orgasm in 10 years?
In what you say for instance: Women needing Men or "inducing them to hang around"...where does this idea come from? Isn't it an unspoken rule?
Let them Fuck off if that's what they want.
Who says we need them?
If you can sustain yourself economically, have some form of education and the spirit to better yourself and your condition, why would you need anybody else than friends?
Somebody unwilling to be there will be the opposite of a good example, or influence on anybody, let alone a growing child.
To me inducing anyone (women or men) to stay by me for the sake of stability (children are far more adaptable than adults) would not only wreck my life (which remains my 1st and foremost responsability) but my children happiness too!!!
Our conditionning is incrusted so deep, we think it's nature. But what do our guts tell us?
Comment by katyzzz
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Not everyone has it together or is capable of it, as you would wish.
But life is tough and many do need a secure relationship (not me, incidentally) but because I don't need, don't have, doesn't mean I wouldn't like.
But I'm all for everyone airing their views. Preferably without angst ( just in case others are watching)
It takes two to make a baby, isn't it logical that it's ideal to have those two around to attend to what they have created?
I know we could talk and argue for ever and I do know where you're coming from.
Good luck with everything.